Jessica points out that “it is bullshit for blacks to blame another race for not having the opportunity to have a decent life.” So too did Will state in class that it makes no sense to blame males for all the past and present oppression of women. I argued that D’Souza points fingers too readily in his arguments against liberals. Indeed, no one should blame a group of people for certain discriminations because the psychology of a group is too complicated to pin point one cause.
I think that many people, and especially men, in America think that there is no longer bias against women. Having attended an all-girls high school and spent much time at the all-boys brother school next door I can tell you from personal experience that this is not true. The student body president, NHS president, and many other girls who took charge of my school were, in my opinion, much better leaders than my guy friends. I know that most of the boys also probably thought that the female leaders at my school could never be as strong leaders as the male leaders at the boys’ school. And, these opinions come from males that I consider to be open-minded and non-chauvinistic. These involuntary beliefs in the inferiority of women as leaders, even in many job situations, come from both males and females.
They stem from social stereotypes and the idea of gender. I think that as a result of biology, women naturally have more nurturing instincts while men naturally have more aggressiveness in everyday choices (and this statement is probably a stereotype on my part). But most views of women or men come from our idea of what it means to be a male or female. Society tells girls that it is okay to cry and express emotion just as it tells boys to be macho and suck it up. Girls are told to be dainty and gentle while boys are told to act tough and forceful. In reality, it is natural for boys and girls to both express emotion and act however they want. My freshman year of high school, I noticed these set roles more as I was surrounded by so much estrogen. The teachers specifically counteracted many societal gender roles, however, through assignments and guest speakers.
The very fact that the boys and girls of our class both focused on beauty and body image also highlights how stereotypes are trivialized to beauty and body image. Body image and self-esteem are extremely important, but they come from deeper labels given to both men and women.
Most of the time I do not even notice such labels, but sometimes I feel the sting when I have to wonder if I will be taken seriously because of my feminine appearance. It is difficult to see the stereotypes and the subsequent discrimination until you are actually stereotyped. By being stereotyped—in any case, not just for gender—one becomes an outsider and can see the dynamics of the larger group more clearly. The three prostitutes in The Bluest Eye, for example, had an outside perspective and saw a different side of married women: “although not their colleagues, so to speak, [the wives] nevertheless deceived their husbands [. . .] ‘Sugar-Coated Whores’ they called them” (Morrison 56).
Like many of us said, the media and fiction capitalize on stereotypes for entertainment and ease of understanding. I think that it is natural and important part of communication to make generalizations and comparisons. Professor Bump points out that “even fictional black families are stereotyped” (Bump 212). In the end, however, these stereotypes for understanding sake create a paradox. They never tell the whole story. After all, “stereotypes are simplistic” (Bump 212).